So currently the only way to be unoccupied in the situation your town is in is to change from Peaceful -> Non-Peaceful and have the occupying nation run the command to unoccupy you. I would not recommend doing this though as toggling to Non-Peaceful will allow other towns to siege you.
I'm suuuuper interested in why people do the things they do in criminal cases so I started looking at these for a career path lol I listen to way way more serial killer podcasts than I have any right to
nice. its always good to try stuff that interests you first. for the longest time i wanted to try running my own pottery business, but i've never been super interested in running my own business. i've been looking at either criminal/forensic psychology or criminology recently though
I understand that. It's why I held off for so long. I changed my mind a fair bit from when I was your age to now (I'm 21) and now I'm back to what I was wanting to do years ago, just a different version of it. I'm not sure how it works for you, but you could try taking a break for a while to see...