You won't amount to anything if you don't put time and effort into it. A couple youtube videos won't help you they can give you help, but not do the work for you.
Some general things I think you should follow are
1. Don't trap players with in-town claims (This includes an arena. Give people a warning if they can't make it out.)
2. Don't go in and out of town claims during PVP to stay safe while doing damage; choose one.
3. Don't be a jerk in chat and...
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